He try to control his anger

17th month

09.04.2012

There is improvement for Han Han to control his anger. Whenever he and his cousin fight over the toys, he will hit, bite and push over his cousin. 

Last night as usual, they fight with toys and drinking bottle Again! Shuan Shuan took away his drinking bottle; I saw His anger face and started to pull Shuan Shuan's hand. I didn't Stopped him, but I use another words and raise my voice:” Ahhhh boyyyy! …. Shuan Shuan is thirsty oh!! Get her bottle and feed her!! Then Shuan Shuan will give back your bottle!” Yes is WORKED!! He feed Shuan Shuan and he gets back his bottle! Even though still with angry face but he control his hitting!! =)

And again, fight over toys!  Both are frustrated, a bit hard control! I asked him walk away! Come mummy’s here! If not later u get hurt!” but he still intent to hit Shuan Shuan. I stopped him and raise my voice again :” Ehhh Ehhh Ehhh….. u forgot ar?” and he put down his hand again.

Anyway, he still hit Shuan Shuan last night, but at least there is improvement! We know he try to control himself, so there are no punishment for him. In other way both of us praise on him. “ You are Big Boy and good boy now oh, u did a good job tonight, Daddy and Mummy knows u try to control urself not to hit Shuan Shuan.. Good Boy!” ..